For Me. Learn And Love.


Me.
All I am sure about is I am so much happy to know him. And also happier to be with him. Really? For sure. I don't say that we didn't argue much. We argue for many things. Even for little things. Do we meet a lot? Few years ago, we met almost everyday. Nowadays? We meet, just if the time is right. Why? Everything can change. So do we. So the way we see our relationship.

 We are at the same age. Okay, I am older for a month plus a day. Is that a problem? If we are in the same age? I don't see it as a problem. I also read an article about "having a relationship with man in the same age". They said that the negative thing is we equally selfish. Are we? For me, it depends on how you see your relationship with your partner. 

 Partner! Haha. I don't know why but I love that word. Sounds like very real, not only for the good time, but also in a bad time. I don't know exactly what is the right thing to do when you are in love. Every person has different way to show their love. Is there any 'suppose to be....' when you are in love with someone? Simple things that you do with all of your heart sure mean a lot. 

 I, myself still learn to love. What I know is I want to be a better person while I am go through this relationship with him. And I hope he will be too. For me, be in relationship, be in love isn't about make you or him change to be someone that each other want. Push each other to much. But, it is how to walk beside each other, be a good partner. It is how to make both of you be better which can make your relationship be better too. Be in relationship and be in love is about learning something in life. 

 So, in the end of the day if he isn't the right one, you still can smile in front of him and say 'Thank you so much for everything, without you, maybe I'm not going to be the person I am today.' It is wise to be grateful for what Allah wants you to learn from love.

 For Risa, it is not only about how many time that we've already spent together, not only because after all this time we never say 'broke-up word'. But, it is also about how many lesson and goodness that I learn from you, from us, from ours. 

 Let's be better! Also keep loving and caring each other.

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